I ask the question, if you were to desperately need help, who could you call? Is it your spouse, a parent, or a best friend if you have options? Think about it, who would be the first person?
Each day we are given an opportunity to live and do for ourselves without worry, but there comes a time when we need others. The model of having a community of support is not available to everyone. There are many people navigating this world who can’t say they have that person who can help them after surgery. To drop them off at the airport. To watch their kids in an emergency. I can say I am grateful because I have a family who’s supportive. We do our best to help as best we can when in need if communicated. We gather during major celebrations. And we even go on vacations together some time. But receiving the help is also about giving as well.
Of course, family can be through blood or through close friendship. In this season you have many who will not have the family to keep them company. This could be through the passing of those closest to them or for other reasons. If you are one of the ones who are grateful to have family, help spread the joy to others. There may be people who you work with or speak to often who might just want someone to have a drink with after work one day. If you work a job that provides a service, letting clients know that if they need anything as it relates to the work, they can reach out. Sometimes people just need someone who cares. If you pass someone in the hallway, a smile or a nod can be nice.
Tis the season to be grateful for many things. Make sure you hold on tight to your family. Treat them with kindness and be grateful to have them around.